To speak or not to speak that is the question!

I went to see a man who does these picture readings. He is a psychic and a very good one on that note. You pick a color of paper, then u write your name on the bottom. You then hold it in your hands for a few minutes than he takes it and moves it over a flame. He then reads the picture that appears. Mine however was so breathtaking. He told me I need to "talk" I need to speak and be myself not to try and be my mother, my grandmother, my aunt. That I look at myself as if im in a mirror world that I dont truly see myself for who I am. Which is very true. That I am getting better at being me. I do feel as if I am getting better the last few months has really changed who I feel that I am. The last two years has changed me as well but in a different way. He said I need to look at myself in  pictures because thats who I am thats the real me. He also asked if I had a brother who passed away, at first I said no, but then I said yes I did its been so long sense I have even thought of him it was a shock to me. He said asked if my son was named after him I said no he is named after my father. He then said he died in a very tragic way which was true, and he said that I(me) didnt know all the details of what happened and I said no I dont and he said He(my brother) didnt want me to know. But he said he was around us all time, and if my son acts like he is talking to someone that its just him helping guide him to do all the things he never got the chance to do. He then said that if I see flowers in strange places that, that is my sign that he is around me. I know a lot of people dont believe in people who can tell you things like this but I find it very interesting. I can feel what other feel at time and I wish I knew more like why they felt that way. So my title is to speak or not to speak ahah. I am open to speaking on line just on in person, and I dont understand why this is. When I am with my friends and some family I am very open to speaking with them. But when it comes to people I dont know its hard because I'm always scared to say the wrong thing, I do not want to seem stupid. I sometimes say things that upset people I do that a lot and my mother always told me if I have nothing nice to say then dont say anything at all. So thats what I have been doing for the last 28 years is keeping my mouth shut. And now I am just going to speak ahha I dont know how well this will work out but it might.